Anyone in a pending deal with dsuj?

brianleonard · 07-31-2012, 02:07 AM

I have a very high end deal pending with dsuj. I sent my end out to him, (he has received), and I can get no confirmation that he has sent mine. I pmed him a couple days ago, at which point he responded that he had a death in the family, but would get my card out the next day. A completely understandable delay obviously. However, I still have no tracking number on the card, he hasn't signed in since the 26th, and I'm getting a little worried. Not calling anyone out here, just wondering if anyone else has heard from him.

cking · 07-31-2012, 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by brianleonard

I have a very high end deal pending with dsuj. I sent my end out to him, (he has received), and I can get no confirmation that he has sent mine. I pmed him a couple days ago, at which point he responded that he had a death in the family, but would get my card out the next day. A completely understandable delay obviously. However, I still have no tracking number on the card, he hasn't signed in since the 26th, and I'm getting a little worried. Not calling anyone out here, just wondering if anyone else has heard from him.

Blowout Cards: The highest rate of deaths in the family on the entire internet

I bet you the coroners and morticians in the towns where all these people live are making crazy money. I feel bad for anyone related to anyone who is a member here because you probably dont have much longer to live.

And why is it that everytime there is a death in the family it is always, always the day after someone recieves a high end card.

lemur01 · 07-31-2012, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by cking

There is so many deaths in the family on this site I am surprised anyone on here has any family left

Maybe it is directly related to card collecting.

Quick stop collecting! Your family is at risk!

ManInTheMirror · 07-31-2012, 02:15 AM

brianleonard · 07-31-2012, 02:19 AM

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Originally Posted by cking

Blowout Cards: The highest rate of deaths in the family on the entire internet

I bet you the coroners and morticians in the towns where all these people live are making crazy money. I feel bad for anyone related to anyone who is a member here because you probably dont have much longer to live.

And why is it that everytime there is a death in the family it is always, always the day after someone recieves a high end card.

Its not like he's brand new, he's got 100+ feedback on here.

cking · 07-31-2012, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by brianleonard

Its not like he's brand new, he's got 100+ feedback on here.

I have never dealt with him so I cannot share an opinion of how he conducts himself. If he did have a death in the family then obviously thats understandable. You just dont know who to believe anymore on here. I could not even tell you how many times in the two years I have been on here that I have heard the words "I will take it" and never been paid. Dozens and thats being conservative. Heck, I had someone pm me during my last sales thread and make me an offer on a card I had. I will repeat that, he pmd me out of the blue with an exact dollar amount offer for a card I had. I said yes to his offer and sent my paypal addy. Never got paid ,never heard back. Why would someone go through the trouble of sending a pm with an offer if they had no intention of paying. I like to think I am a somewhat intellegent individual but that honestly just baffles me. I dont get it. Maybe its not meant for me to understand.

NonSportsCardForum · 07-31-2012, 05:00 AM

Would it be harsh to say "prove it"?

Copeskey45 · 07-31-2012, 05:06 AM

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Originally Posted by NonSportsCardForum

Would it be harsh to say "prove it"?

That wouldn't be "harsh". It would be insensitive. Not taking up for anyone, but how could you ask someone who has had a death in the family to show proof? People have to realize there is more to life than cards.

NonSportsCardForum · 07-31-2012, 06:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Copeskey45

That wouldn't be "harsh". It would be insensitive. Not taking up for anyone, but how could you ask someone who has had a death in the family to show proof? People have to realize there is more to life than cards.

I guess when youve been around long enough to see that excuse tossed out so easily at some point you have to wonder if its true or not.

Copeskey45 · 07-31-2012, 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by NonSportsCardForum

I guess when youve been around long enough to see that excuse tossed out so easily at some point you have to wonder if its true or not.

Oh I completely agree! It's b.s. that some people use a "death" in the family as an excuse!

Prospect Rush · 07-31-2012, 07:07 AM

Even worse is when/if u do get the cards they won't match the scans anyway. Yes he has done it before!

Yet people keep dealing with him?????????????

cking · 07-31-2012, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Copeskey45

That wouldn't be "harsh". It would be insensitive. Not taking up for anyone, but how could you ask someone who has had a death in the family to show proof? People have to realize there is more to life than cards.

I think we are all aware that there is more to life then cards. But no matter what happened this person does not have the right to rip any one off. Death in the family or not. If you lose your job tomorrow can you walk into Walmart and shoplift anything you want as long as you tell the police "there is more to life then cards" No matter what the circumstances are, robbing someone is not acceptable.

lemur01 · 07-31-2012, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Copeskey45

That wouldn't be "harsh". It would be insensitive. Not taking up for anyone, but how could you ask someone who has had a death in the family to show proof? People have to realize there is more to life than cards.

Hard to come to that realization when you have money tied up with someone in a deal.

uberfatty · 07-31-2012, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Major_League

Even worse is when/if u do get the cards they won't match the scans anyway. Yes he has done it before!

Yet people keep dealing with him?????????????

oh was this that Miguel Sano BC auto thing?

brianleonard · 07-31-2012, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Major_League

Even worse is when/if u do get the cards they won't match the scans anyway. Yes he has done it before!

Yet people keep dealing with him?????????????

Already read through that topic. Luckily my deal was for a graded card

marquettebull06 · 07-31-2012, 05:12 PM

I'm sorry but the "someone died" excuse is overused and it paints the other party in a corner. If you call them out you're an a**hole as you have no proof otherwise and if you don't say anything you could be getting duped. True story: I had a bunch of cards I sold when my daughter was born in April. She came 3 weeks early. I emailed the buyers from the hospital and explained the situation. Took me 3 minutes. My point being, even if something comes up I think you still have a responsibility to make people aware there may be a delay. As far as the specific "someone died" excuse...I has a guy jerking me around about a fireplace installation. He kept coming up with excuse after excuse...one of the final ones was that his grandfather died. Convenient. If you don't take initiative to contact me to explain, I'm calling BS. I told him to "show me the body". It turned out he was full of sh*t and I got my money back. Obviously, it was a different situation but I would not buy that excuse based on my experience. No matter what happens, you need to communicate. "No excuses. Play like a champion." (Wedding Crashers)

brianleonard · 07-31-2012, 05:26 PM

Just so you guys know, I did get a tracking number from dsuj today. Hope all is well with he and his family.

Jenkinssssss · 07-31-2012, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Major_League

Even worse is when/if u do get the cards they won't match the scans anyway. Yes he has done it before!

Yet people keep dealing with him?????????????

http://www.blowoutcards.com/forums/b...-end-deal.html

The Kemp in that deal went for $1800 few months later...FML.

07-31-2012, 02:07 AM	#1
brianleonard Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Durham, NC Posts: 3,007 201thecardcollector jwman92	Anyone in a pending deal with dsuj? I have a very high end deal pending with dsuj. I sent my end out to him, (he has received), and I can get no confirmation that he has sent mine. I pmed him a couple days ago, at which point he responded that he had a death in the family, but would get my card out the next day. A completely understandable delay obviously. However, I still have no tracking number on the card, he hasn't signed in since the 26th, and I'm getting a little worried. Not calling anyone out here, just wondering if anyone else has heard from him. __________________ Collecting Mets, Patriots and SuperCollecting Brian Leonard! http://s172.photobucket.com/albums/w11/jwman92/Trade%20and%20Sale%20Album/ I DO NOT PAY WITH PAYPAL GIFT

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Prospect Rush Banned Join Date: May 2011 Location: @prospectrush Posts: 10,179	Even worse is when/if u do get the cards they won't match the scans anyway. Yes he has done it before! Yet people keep dealing with him????????????? Last edited by Prospect Rush; 07-31-2012 at 07:10 AM.

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brianleonard Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Durham, NC Posts: 3,007 201thecardcollector jwman92	Just so you guys know, I did get a tracking number from dsuj today. Hope all is well with he and his family. __________________ Collecting Mets, Patriots and SuperCollecting Brian Leonard! http://s172.photobucket.com/albums/w11/jwman92/Trade%20and%20Sale%20Album/ I DO NOT PAY WITH PAYPAL GIFT

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marquettebull06 Inactive Account Join Date: May 2012 Location: Illinois Posts: 251 marquettewade3 ajbdptatc	I'm sorry but the "someone died" excuse is overused and it paints the other party in a corner. If you call them out you're an a*hole as you have no proof otherwise and if you don't say anything you could be getting duped. True story: I had a bunch of cards I sold when my daughter was born in April. She came 3 weeks early. I emailed the buyers from the hospital and explained the situation. Took me 3 minutes. My point being, even if something comes up I think you still have a responsibility to make people aware there may be a delay. As far as the specific "someone died" excuse...I has a guy jerking me around about a fireplace installation. He kept coming up with excuse after excuse...one of the final ones was that his grandfather died. Convenient. If you don't take initiative to contact me to explain, I'm calling BS. I told him to "show me the body". It turned out he was full of sht and I got my money back. Obviously, it was a different situation but I would not buy that excuse based on my experience. No matter what happens, you need to communicate. "No excuses. Play like a champion." (Wedding Crashers)