Real life question

[ima_do_me213]

Ever really think about giving up on something cause you had a STRONG gut feeling something wasnt right(the type of gut feeling that never lied)? Its hard especially if u have so much time in it. If so what did u do?

[Nyfancam01]

usually fap..

then make your mind up

[ima_do_me213]

Originally Posted by Nyfancam01

usually fap..

then make your mind up

What if its something that makes u not even want to fap?

[jbrandonw]

Gotta go with your gut sometimes man. I know it's hard to when you've put alot of time into something, but your feeling that way for a reason. I'd say sleep on it, and then when you come to a decision just go with it. Second guessing yourself gets you no where, and once you've gone through with it there will be a weight off your shoulders.

[88horsepower]

I've come to learn that my instincts are usually right. Not to say I'm perfect, but when you get that spidey sense about things, I find it's a good idea to listen to it.

[coltsnsox07]

Are we talking sports card collecting or something real-life important?

[ima_do_me213]

Originally Posted by jbrandonw

Gotta go with your gut sometimes man. I know it's hard to when you've put alot of time into something, but your feeling that way for a reason. I'd say sleep on it, and then when you come to a decision just go with it. Second guessing yourself gets you no where, and once you've gone through with it there will be a weight off your shoulders.

Its just hard because what if im just taking the gut feeling the wrong way

Originally Posted by 88horsepower

I've come to learn that my instincts are usually right. Not to say I'm perfect, but when you get that spidey sense about things, I find it's a good idea to listen to it.

Its just hard because what if im just taking the gut feeling the wrong way

Originally Posted by coltsnsox07

Are we talking sports card collecting or something real-life important?

Real life

[jbrandonw]

[QUOTE=ima_do_me213;9006698]Its just hard because what if im just taking the gut feeling the wrong way

That's called second guessing yourself. Like i said, Theres a reason your feeling the way you are. If your not sure then make a pros and cons list. I know it sounds silly, but its a quick way to find out if the good is worth the bad.

[CelticsRR]

Pray about it bro.

[Nicnac]

Originally Posted by Nyfancam01

usually fap..

then make your mind up

What if it's fapping he feels bad about?

[JosieD]

My mom always told me the following:

1. never make life altering decisions when you are pregnant (I think you are safe on this one)
2. Never make life altering decisions when you are in the midst of a crisis

Make sure you are in a good space and focus on the decision at hand, make a pro/con list, and weigh all your options. Where would this put you in 5 years, etc.

Good luck with your decision.

[IndyKMB]

I'm sure neither of these examples apply to, but maybe this might be a bit useful:

1. As a teacher I tell my kids to always trust their gut instincts on assessments, because 8-9 times out of 10 that will be the correct response

2. Personally, I follow the same mantra in many aspects of my life, from decisions to personal situations. For example, 5 weeks ago I was playing basketball, jumped for a rebound, landed on a friend's foot, ankle buckled, and I was in sever pain on the floor. My buddies, while sympathetic, after a couple of minutes encouraged me to stand up and try and walk it off a bit to loosen it up. They helped me up, I put the foot down slightly and just knew my ankle was broken, so I asked them to carry me off the court, and I got one of them to drive me to the ER.

They all knew I was overreacting to a severe sprain.
Even though I've never broken a bone, I knew it was broken.
Guess who was right?

Also, when I lost my job after 9/11 I was out of work for quite awhile. Long enough that I was becoming nervous and desperate. But I turned down two jobs because as the interview process proceeded my instincts told me that was not the best situation for me and my family. And I went with it and turned them down, prolonging my miserable situation. But I have never regretted it.

[Boo]

Dump her, if that's how you feel it will just get worse.

[TarjetasBéisbol]

Take a break and see how you feel after letting it settle for a bit. Try not to dwell on it and if you feel the same way after stepping away it may be time to totally walk away.