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daeve
07-09-2018, 07:54 PM
Granted, better than shipping and then getting a return request, but this was within 20 minutes of me accepting.

Hi there. I sent you a cancellation request. I thought I had enough funds to clear in my PayPal but was mistaken.
If it's still available in a week, I may still be interested. Sorry for the inconvenience.

He sent that a minute after requesting to cancel. I'm leaning heavily toward blocking because he just doesn't seem like someone I want to deal with in the future, and it looks weird that he doesn't have funds considering he sold a $1k+ Curry card not long ago and my item was only $62.

ThoseBackPages
07-09-2018, 07:55 PM
easy block

post the name here

Nutcracker33
07-09-2018, 08:01 PM
well, at least hes up front about it, and not my newborn baby bid on it bs

for me personally, I probably wont block it

other factors might come into play like feedback etc

chuckerrrr
07-09-2018, 08:12 PM
BLOCK!

bmf
07-09-2018, 08:42 PM
easy block

post the name here

this^^^^^^^^

ehp6737
07-09-2018, 09:14 PM
Block at your own discretion, but it sounds like an honest mistake resolved in a timely manner.

If it was an auction then bring out the pitchforks, but I'm assuming it was a BIN since you said you "accepted".

GOLDPRIZM
07-09-2018, 10:29 PM
I would block him unless you cant wait to hear his excuse the next time

rittdk01
07-09-2018, 11:00 PM
The guy can't afford $62 everyone should block him so he can stop wasting his money on cards.

Kardbordkrakhed
07-10-2018, 03:01 AM
The guy can't afford $62 everyone should block him so he can stop wasting his money on cards.



I’m a stay at home dad and I currently don’t have $62 to spend on cards. His finances are his business and there could be a number of reasons to why he doesn’t have the money AT THIS TIME.
As another member already said he was honest and open and made a mistake and resolved it very quickly, I think I could give him a pass on this one.

rittdk01
07-10-2018, 03:40 AM
^^^^the guy has NO BUSINESS buying cards if $62 breaks him. :)!

Brobocop
07-10-2018, 04:51 AM
I’m a stay at home dad and I currently don’t have $62 to spend on cards. His finances are his business and there could be a number of reasons to why he doesn’t have the money AT THIS TIME.
As another member already said he was honest and open and made a mistake and resolved it very quickly, I think I could give him a pass on this one.

Yes, but maybe you should check your funds before going back and forth on a trading card on eBay. It’s like going to a grocery store, having them scan and bag all your items, and then saying, “Oops forgot my wallet.” and then leaving the store.

chuckerrrr
07-10-2018, 07:07 AM
Yes, but maybe you should check your funds before going back and forth on a trading card on eBay. It’s like going to a grocery store, having them scan and bag all your items, and then saying, “Oops forgot my wallet.” and then leaving the store.

Totally agree with you. I always check my finance’s. It’s happened to me now numerous times a buyer bidding on my auctions then either coming up with an excuse of why they can’t buy the card or no contact/payment at all after they win. Control your impulses people or check your finances and just don’t assume you can afford everything.

6celtics33
07-10-2018, 08:48 AM
Do you think you should block him?

Follow your own path based on what YOU think is right.

NeilCO
07-10-2018, 10:36 AM
Block at your own discretion, but it sounds like an honest mistake resolved in a timely manner.

If it was an auction then bring out the pitchforks, but I'm assuming it was a BIN since you said you "accepted".

Agree with this.

Kardbordkrakhed
07-10-2018, 10:39 AM
Yes, but maybe you should check your funds before going back and forth on a trading card on eBay. It’s like going to a grocery store, having them scan and bag all your items, and then saying, “Oops forgot my wallet.” and then leaving the store.



SH*t HAPPENS!

shrevecity
07-10-2018, 10:56 AM
I would rather him cancel before you shipped than wanting to return after he gets it. Would cost you more time and money. An angry paying bidder can be far more of a headache than one who does not pay or you happily cancel.

It should be your own decision not the decision of others as to what you do.

messier2
07-10-2018, 10:57 AM
I block all that request cancellation or do not pay. My simple rule.

shrevecity
07-10-2018, 10:58 AM
Totally agree with you. I always check my finance’s. It’s happened to me now numerous times a buyer bidding on my auctions then either coming up with an excuse of why they can’t buy the card or no contact/payment at all after they win. Control your impulses people or check your finances and just don’t assume you can afford everything.

I have done that before. Stuff happens. Shoot I had 4000 dollars in my account yesterday, last night my wife blew a head gasket on her car.. Guess what I have in there now?

JeffG1954
07-10-2018, 11:23 AM
I have done that before. Stuff happens. Shoot I had 4000 dollars in my account yesterday, last night my wife blew a head gasket on her car.. Guess what I have in there now?

$4000 and note that says you're going to miss her?

daeve
07-10-2018, 09:23 PM
boomshakalaka1130 is the username for those who want to block. I'm still undecided. Less mad about it now than right when it happened though.

Kardbordkrakhed
07-10-2018, 10:16 PM
Just a quick cancellation story;
A few months ago I had a guy purchase something from me and almost instantly messaged me with a request to cancel. I didn’t hesitate and canceled the order immediately and relisted the card. The “buyer” left me positive feedback even though he didn’t buy the card.