I can't do this anymore

dmccards22 · 07-04-2016, 09:10 PM

I fully understand of running the risk of an auction on eBay and I understand wanting the most for your stuff. But when I message you and ask to put a BIN FOR more than the card is gonna go for, and get a nasty response. So I offered double what it's going for I got a nastier response.. I just don't get it

Superman24742 · 07-04-2016, 09:15 PM

Just wait and win it at auction? A lot of people won't want to stop an auction, especially if it has bids on it.

myerscards · 07-04-2016, 09:21 PM

What was the card? What did you offer?

drumstyx89 · 07-04-2016, 09:23 PM

People are stupid. There's no other justification.

LoveItCards · 07-04-2016, 09:24 PM

Could be a business decision move in following through on original intention by seller.

Birdmandig · 07-04-2016, 09:27 PM

I understand you wanting the card, seems like the seller lacks people/life skills or customer service, just win it at auction for (it sounds like a cheaper price) than you have offered and count him being a douche noggle and losing money being his loss.

dmccards22 · 07-04-2016, 09:28 PM

The card was at 65$ with a day left so I offered 100 than 150 now the card is at 100 about to end and I offered 180 than 200

corndog · 07-04-2016, 09:28 PM

When I list an item as an auction I will not end it for any reason.

Patience is a virtue.

dmccards22 · 07-04-2016, 09:28 PM

I just hate auctions so if it's a card I want or need I'll message them an insane BIN price

glen87 · 07-04-2016, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by corndog

When I list an item as an auction I will not end it for any reason.

Patience is a virtue.

agreed, had i wanted to offer a BiN, i would have done that at the start. i hate when sellers end auctions early. it causes me to (often) not bid on their items in the future.

bojesphob · 07-04-2016, 09:42 PM

I've offered some sellers a pretty good over value offers on some stuff that they had listed of the prizm stuff I need, and had replies that said "I want to see what it goes for on auction". Fine, I have no problem with that, but i ask anyway just because I've gotten some people to take me up on the offer. It's not that I don't have patience to wait, I just want to make sure I get it. Anyhow, every time i've done that and the person turned me down, I got it for about 20-30 less than the offer I made, so i can't complain lol

dmccards22 · 07-04-2016, 10:12 PM

Yeah I mean I can wait but with the holidays and such I just didn't wanna wait 2 weeks for shipping. It just annoys me to wait a week and own a card at less than what you offered

BGT Masters · 07-04-2016, 10:17 PM

So what makes you think you are entitled for a seller to cancel bids on their own listing, end an auction early and relist as a BIN just for you if they do not want to?

dmccards22 · 07-05-2016, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by BGT Masters

So what makes you think you are entitled for a seller to cancel bids on their own listing, end an auction early and relist as a BIN just for you if they do not want to?

The thing is, I messaged him a generous offer, and I got a response in a nutshell saying "that kinda money ain't touch this card".
Now if I offered you 100$ on a lebron James auto that had 7days left and was at 70$ and wanted you to cancel, I see you having an issue.

The thing is I offered him a high offer so he would accept and get it out before the holidays.

I mean I'm not hard up for money, I can offer a good amount. But waiting a week to only win cheaper is insane

MacIrish82 · 07-05-2016, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by dmccards22

The thing is, I messaged him a generous offer, and I got a response in a nutshell saying "that kinda money ain't touch this card".
Now if I offered you 100$ on a lebron James auto that had 7days left and was at 70$ and wanted you to cancel, I see you having an issue.

The thing is I offered him a high offer so he would accept and get it out before the holidays.

I mean I'm not hard up for money, I can offer a good amount. But waiting a week to only win cheaper is insane

You are obviously just trolling, or had to much to drink for the holiday. Just lay down, and pass out buddy. Tomorrow is a new day.

free2131 · 07-05-2016, 01:59 AM

Is the world gonna end in two weeks? You'd rather pay double what the card is worth and will likely go for just so you can get it two weeks early?

rcmb3220 · 07-05-2016, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by dmccards22

Yeah I mean I can wait but with the holidays and such I just didn't wanna wait 2 weeks for shipping. It just annoys me to wait a week and own a card at less than what you offered

yeah that is annoying.

ssbledsoe · 07-05-2016, 08:05 AM

OP comes off as an entitled douchebag. If they reject your offer, get over it and bid like everyone else. It's the sellers card to do with as they please. Honestly, had I declined your original offer and you come at me again with a second offer, I would have blocked you and happily sold it for less to someone that respected my wishes to sell the card at auction.

BoJackCards · 07-05-2016, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ssbledsoe

OP comes off as an entitled douchebag. If they reject your offer, get over it and bid like everyone else. It's the sellers card to do with as they please. Honestly, had I declined your original offer and you come at me again with a second offer, I would have blocked you and happily sold it for less to someone that respected my wishes to sell the card at auction.

Name calling.....nice.

jmscoggin · 07-05-2016, 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by corndog

When I list an item as an auction I will not end it for any reason.

Patience is a virtue.

Quote:

Originally Posted by glen87

agreed, had i wanted to offer a BiN, i would have done that at the start. i hate when sellers end auctions early. it causes me to (often) not bid on their items in the future.

Quote:

Originally Posted by BGT Masters

So what makes you think you are entitled for a seller to cancel bids on their own listing, end an auction early and relist as a BIN just for you if they do not want to?

Agreed.

Quote:

Originally Posted by dmccards22

The thing is, I messaged him a generous offer, and I got a response in a nutshell saying "that kinda money ain't touch this card".
Now if I offered you 100$ on a lebron James auto that had 7days left and was at 70$ and wanted you to cancel, I see you having an issue.

The thing is I offered him a high offer so he would accept and get it out before the holidays.

I mean I'm not hard up for money, I can offer a good amount. But waiting a week to only win cheaper is insane

No matter how many times mommy tells you otherwise, you are not a special snowflake.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssbledsoe

OP comes off as an entitled douchebag. If they reject your offer, get over it and bid like everyone else. It's the sellers card to do with as they please. Honestly, had I declined your original offer and you come at me again with a second offer, I would have blocked you and happily sold it for less to someone that respected my wishes to sell the card at auction.

Agreed.

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Originally Posted by BoJackCards

Name calling.....nice.

Sometimes the shoe just fits.

BoJackCards · 07-05-2016, 09:10 AM

"Sometimes the shoe fits". Not if you're a grown mature man. I would think a grown man could come up with better arguments than calling somebody a "douche bag" but maybe that's just me.

jmscoggin · 07-05-2016, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by BoJackCards

"Sometimes the shoe fits". Not if you're a grown mature man. I would think a grown man could come up with better arguments than calling somebody a "douche bag" but maybe that's just me.

Sometimes they can and I wish better words were coming to my head but unfortunately they aren't, the same phrase just keeps coming to mind, 'sometimes the shoe fits'. Would I have said the same thing in reference to the posts above it? No but that doesn't mean I don't agree with the sentiment. The OP is coming off as an entitled, whiny, spoiled brat, prima donna. Looky there, I did come up with other words after all.

Scottish Punk · 07-05-2016, 09:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssbledsoe

OP comes off as an entitled douchebag. If they reject your offer, get over it and bid like everyone else. It's the sellers card to do with as they please. Honestly, had I declined your original offer and you come at me again with a second offer, I would have blocked you and happily sold it for less to someone that respected my wishes to sell the card at auction.

i like this idea.

IronMonkey415 · 07-05-2016, 09:27 AM

I have a Jim Langer mini football helmet for sale...BUY FROM ME!!!!

Until the mod PM me and say "STOP!!! Plugging your ebay page"

chipmaster · 07-05-2016, 09:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ssbledsoe

OP comes off as an entitled douchebag. If they reject your offer, get over it and bid like everyone else. It's the sellers card to do with as they please. Honestly, had I declined your original offer and you come at me again with a second offer, I would have blocked you and happily sold it for less to someone that respected my wishes to sell the card at auction.

I had a Sidney Crosby Cup RC Platinum /25 years ago up for $1000. a buyer offered me $950 and I declined. He was nasty and was acting entitled to the card when I wouldn't budge. It sat up for a week more and I wound up accepting a $930 offer from someone that was pleasant and cool to deal with.

I got a very angry, condescending email from the first offer buyer saying things like I was a POS for not accepting, blah blah blah.

Told him it was my freakin' card, and he had such a potty attitude that I wouldn't have sold it to him for $1500. Basically told him to kick rocks and pound sand over $20.

Some real tools on eBay

07-04-2016, 09:10 PM	#1
dmccards22 Member Join Date: May 2015 Posts: 108	I can't do this anymore I fully understand of running the risk of an auction on eBay and I understand wanting the most for your stuff. But when I message you and ask to put a BIN FOR more than the card is gonna go for, and get a nasty response. So I offered double what it's going for I got a nastier response.. I just don't get it __________________ ***Dexter McCluster super collector***

07-04-2016, 09:15 PM	#2
Superman24742 Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Cincinnati, Ohio Posts: 3,670 Superman24742	Just wait and win it at auction? A lot of people won't want to stop an auction, especially if it has bids on it. __________________ http://s6.photobucket.com/albums/y243/Superman24742/ Looking for Bengals and Steve Smith(Panthers)

07-04-2016, 09:28 PM	#7
dmccards22 Member Join Date: May 2015 Posts: 108	The card was at 65$ with a day left so I offered 100 than 150 now the card is at 100 about to end and I offered 180 than 200 __________________ ***Dexter McCluster super collector***

07-04-2016, 09:28 PM	#8
corndog BODA Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: From a table in McDonalds, with lovely fake flowers on it. Posts: 17,932	When I list an item as an auction I will not end it for any reason. Patience is a virtue. __________________ He has no rival, He has no equal.

07-04-2016, 09:28 PM	#9
dmccards22 Member Join Date: May 2015 Posts: 108	I just hate auctions so if it's a card I want or need I'll message them an insane BIN price __________________ ***Dexter McCluster super collector***

07-04-2016, 09:21 PM	#3
myerscards Banned Join Date: Oct 2014 Posts: 9,729	What was the card? What did you offer?

07-04-2016, 09:23 PM	#4
drumstyx89 Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,335 jeremyk3714	People are stupid. There's no other justification.

07-04-2016, 09:24 PM	#5
LoveItCards Banned Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Holy Moly-ville Posts: 2,971 holymolythumbsup	Could be a business decision move in following through on original intention by seller.

07-04-2016, 09:27 PM	#6
Birdmandig Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Tampa Posts: 1,699	I understand you wanting the card, seems like the seller lacks people/life skills or customer service, just win it at auction for (it sounds like a cheaper price) than you have offered and count him being a douche noggle and losing money being his loss.

07-04-2016, 09:42 PM	#11
bojesphob Member Join Date: May 2014 Posts: 3,715 bojesphob	I've offered some sellers a pretty good over value offers on some stuff that they had listed of the prizm stuff I need, and had replies that said "I want to see what it goes for on auction". Fine, I have no problem with that, but i ask anyway just because I've gotten some people to take me up on the offer. It's not that I don't have patience to wait, I just want to make sure I get it. Anyhow, every time i've done that and the person turned me down, I got it for about 20-30 less than the offer I made, so i can't complain lol

07-04-2016, 10:12 PM	#12
dmccards22 Member Join Date: May 2015 Posts: 108	Yeah I mean I can wait but with the holidays and such I just didn't wanna wait 2 weeks for shipping. It just annoys me to wait a week and own a card at less than what you offered __________________ ***Dexter McCluster super collector***

07-04-2016, 10:17 PM	#13
BGT Masters Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Wellsville, New York Posts: 10,184	So what makes you think you are entitled for a seller to cancel bids on their own listing, end an auction early and relist as a BIN just for you if they do not want to?

07-05-2016, 01:59 AM	#16
free2131 Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 5,367	Is the world gonna end in two weeks? You'd rather pay double what the card is worth and will likely go for just so you can get it two weeks early? __________________ “I exploit you, still you love me. I tell you one and one makes three.” - Living Colour

07-05-2016, 08:05 AM	#18
ssbledsoe Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: At least 500 feet from DB11 Posts: 28,671 ssbledsoe ssbledsoe	OP comes off as an entitled douchebag. If they reject your offer, get over it and bid like everyone else. It's the sellers card to do with as they please. Honestly, had I declined your original offer and you come at me again with a second offer, I would have blocked you and happily sold it for less to someone that respected my wishes to sell the card at auction. __________________ Drew Bledsoe is a better QB than Patrick Mahomes

07-05-2016, 09:10 AM	#21
BoJackCards Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,441	"Sometimes the shoe fits". Not if you're a grown mature man. I would think a grown man could come up with better arguments than calling somebody a "douche bag" but maybe that's just me. __________________ One Buy It Now does not make the market.

07-05-2016, 09:27 AM	#24
IronMonkey415 Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 44,118 ironmonkeyfromsf	I have a Jim Langer mini football helmet for sale...BUY FROM ME!!!! Until the mod PM me and say "STOP!!! Plugging your ebay page"